Another phenomenon this year is the appearance of mentors who in my book don’t qualify. To me a mentor must have more than a few gray hairs and have years under his belt as a successful entrepreneur. Writing one or two books that sold reasonably well and then offering mentoring services for a $1000 per month just doesn’t cut it.
The worst type of mentor though is the one who has the experience, offers his services and then gets an assistant to deal with the personal email contact. The whole point of being a mentor is that if you are charging $1000′s then the contact must be personal and not handled by a junior assistant.
You can usually tell that this is happening when the email reply to your questions consists of the original message split into paragraphs and one line or even one word answers between the paragraphs.
I have spent sometime looking at mentorship programs this year as they do offer a fast track to success if you are prepared to spend the money BUT they can be very expensive.
The best example of successful mentoring has to be the story of the late Corey Rudl who invested in a mentorship which I believe was with the legendary Dan Kennedy. I would assume it was very expensive but Corey made millions with his pioneering Internet Business.
It all boils down to choosing the right mentor and in the case of Dan Kennedy he was no spring chicken but had a wealth of experience which only comes with time. This doesn’t mean that all mentors have to be “old and grizzly” as there are some some very successful young ones but they are few and far between and a bit of a rarity.
Another quality you need is empathy with your mentor that is someone you feel comfortable about working with and investing your time and money. The easiest way to “get a feel” is by reading email from different mentors. Some of them I find really smarmy and over the top. I wince every time I think of one individuals web sites and adverts. I get a buzz when I press the delete key on his email knowing I will never buy anything he tries to sell me.
Yes! I know its sad but everytime I see his name in my inbox it winds me up.
On the other hand I really look forward to another mentor who is very talented and has a very low HI ( Hype Index ). The other thing I really like about him is that he is straight down the line and tells it like it is. He is one of the very few IM experts who regularly criticises new products and hammers them if they are rubbish and praises them if they are good. And he buys them all before he reviews them. I believe he has spent over $30,000 buying and testing Internet Marketing products over the last few years. He is a real Pro!
If you are thinking of using a mentor the cost can vary from $10 a month to $1,000′s a month and I think I have the best deal at present with someone who is very experienced and at a very attractive price. I’ve just started on his program to help me launch my new project and I’ll report back on how it all works out over the next few months.